"A penetrating, thoroughly researched look into the search for intimacy in an age when gay singles are the new pariahs. Can you afford to be alone? Maybe, but not without this book."

- Michael Musto, celebrity/gossip columnist, The Village Voice

In searching for the causes of his own perpetual singledom, Steven Bereznai exposes the complicated reality hiding beneath the fairytale of the happily-ever-after relationship. With unflinching honesty, infectious curiosity, and all-around good humor, he questions what it means to be a gay man in (and particularly not in) partnership with others. Ultimately his quest for answers reveals much about the needs of gay men as individuals and chronicles the way the shifting perception of relationships has affected the political and cultural landscape of the gay community as a whole.

- Michael Thomas Ford, Author of Looking For It and Full Circle

Steven Bereznai writes from the heart but never loses sight of the mind – or other bodily organs. His candid, drop-dead funny, insightful, and thoroughly researched book is a must-read to all those gay men, drama queens included, who are wise to love but still without it, by choice or otherwise.

- Kamal Al-Solaylee, Theatre Critic, The Globe and Mail

Who needs Carrie Bradshaw anymore? Steven Bereznai’s book brings to light that living a gay and single life may be for the limp of wrist but certainly not for the faint of heart. His stories, analysis and over-the-top affirmations make for a delicious and informative read.

- Elio Iannacci, Features Editor, Flare Magazine

Here comes the new gay bible. If you can¹t buy love, you can at least buy this book. It may not bring a ring to your finger, but it will certainly give you a better understanding of why you haven’t introduced somebody to Mom.

- Mathieu Chantelois, Read OUT!, OUTtv